I’m a man who writes straight contemporary erotic romance.
Now that we have that out of the way and if you’re still
reading, allow me to present my credentials. I’ve been a published author for
ten years. I have nine books out and two more slated for release later this
year. One of my books is a bestseller and I’ve won several literary awards.
I’ve done personal appearances from Chicago to New York to Key West, and many
points in between. I blog two or three times a month and usually get good
responses. My books have consistently received above-average reviews.
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I grew an armadillo’s hide a long time ago because I’ve spent
many years working in a field populated mostly by women and I’m accustomed to
being one of the only men in the office. Gender-specific remarks and jokes
don’t bother me but in the world of romance stories, there seems to be a bias
in some circles, an unwritten rule that says “No guys allowed.”
A couple of review sites told me flat out that they wouldn’t
review a romance written by a man unless it was male/male. One publisher said
the only way they would consider my submission was if I used a pseudonym so
their readers wouldn’t think a man wrote it. At book festivals and RomCons I’ve
been shunned by readers and bloggers, and one well-known author actually
laughed in my face when I told her what I write. I’ve also been shot down on
chat boards with the opinion “a man can’t write a believable romance.” I’d like
to counter that one with the following review quotes, all for different
books.
“The sensual scenes are beautifully written and perfectly
illustrate the evolving emotion and attraction between the characters.”
“Tim Smith has a great deal of talent for writing erotic
scenes.”
“I enjoyed reading The
Sweet Distraction as it gave me a new perspective of the male/female
relationship from a guy’s viewpoint.”
“Anywhere the Heart
Goes is a fun, enjoyable romp through the often confusing world of
relationships. It artfully and humorously portrays the eternal struggle of men
and women in their complicated dance of getting along.”
“This is a beautiful portrayal of an evolving romance
between two individuals.”
Please don’t think I’m complaining, because I’m not. I’m
truly grateful for the successes I’ve had and for being accepted by many
readers and peers. A wise person once said “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” I
suppose the point I’m trying to make is “Don’t judge an author by their
gender.” You might miss out on something pretty good.
Bio:
Tim Smith is an award-winning, bestselling
author and a freelance photographer. His latest release is the romantic mystery
Lido Key from eXtasy Books. More
information about his books can be found at his website, www.timsmithauthor.com.
3 comments:
Hi there Tim - I've read Lido Key and loved it! I co-write with my husband under our pen name, no problem convincing me men can write romance. Kudos to you! Hope we'll run into you at a convention someday.
YOU were the one who read "Lido Key"? Thank you!!!
Seriously, I'm glad you liked it and I'd love to run into both of you at a convention someday.
Tim Smith
Great article! Gender stereotypes are one of my biggest pet peeves. There's no reason men can't write great romance.
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